my husband doesn't listen to me. He says he is and when i say are you listening to me? he says yes, you said blah blah blah!, he can recite back all that i said. Then i say and what does it actually mean, he looks blank and says oh i am not sure. Then admits that he was not really listening. He fortunately has the grace to look sheepish when he is caught lol!!!
It is infuriating tho.